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Living According to Your Values - Part Two

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  Last time, we talked about why and how our values influence our decisions and choices. We know that our values - what is really important to us - shape our priorities . This helps us make decisions for ourselves. But sometimes, we are unable to live according to our values fully. This can happen for many reasons: life may not give us many choices, we might feel unwell or stressed, we have conflicting thoughts and emotions, etc. For example, let's say you value spending time with friends and family. But life is really busy with constant work duties, long hours, and things to do. You begin feeling stressed, you are not relaxing or sleeping enough, and you feel 'down'. Because you have so much to do - and the fact that you feel kind of 'down in the dumps', makes you either go to work, or come home and 'crash'. As a result, you have not spent much time with your loved ones, nor have you relaxed in a while. Of course, this makes you feel frustrated and e